Frequently Asked Questions 
General Questions
How do I contact ICD Bridges?

Have questions about our organization? Feel free to contact us anytime!

ICD Bridges

PO BOX 5018

SAN ANGELO, TX 76902 

 

ICD Administrative Office:

325-340-4459

 

NewBridge Family Shelter:

325-658-8631

 

StoneBridge Training Residence:

325-655-3884

Education Questions
What do I need if I plan on leaving?

Important Items to Take When You Leave

Identification

Driver’s License

 Birth Certificate

Children’s Birth Certificates

Social Security Cards

Financial

Money and/or credit cards (in your name)

Checking and/or savings account books

Legal Papers

Protective Order 

Lease, rental agreement and house deed

Car registration and insurance papers

Health and life insurance papers

Medical records for you and your children

School records

Work permits/Green Card/Visa

Passport

Divorce and custody papers

Marriage license

Other

Medications

House and car keys

Valuable jewelry

Address book

Pictures and sentimental items

Change of clothes for you and your children

Other

What steps should I take to stay safe?

Safety During an Explosive Incident

A.If you feel an argument may be about to occur, try to move to a place that has one or more exits. Try to avoid being in a bathroom, kitchen or room that may contain weapons.

B.Practice exiting your home safely. Identify which doors, windows, elevator, or stairwell to use.

C.Pack a bag, and leave it at a friend’s or relative’s house.

D.Identify one or more neighbors you can tell about the violence, and ask them to call the police if they hear a disturbance coming from your home.

E.Develop an age–appropriate safety plan with your children.

F.Devise a code word to use with your children, family, friends and neighbors when you need someone to call the police.

G.Decide and plan where you will go if you ever have to leave home.

H.Trust your instincts and your judgment. In some dangerous situations, you may chose to give the abuser what he/she wants to calm him/her down. Only you can decide the best way to protect yourself and your children in each situation. 

How do I talk to a victim of domestic violence?

Perhaps in the past you have felt that you should not get involved in a private family matter, or that the violence can't really be that bad. "She must be doing something to provoke the violence, I know him-I really don't think he could hurt anyone."

Domestic violence is not a family matter. It is a CRIME with serious repercussions for your friend, her children, and the entire community. It results in more injuries that require medical attention than rape, auto accidents and muggings combined. A victim of battering is never to blame for another person's choice to use violence against him/her. Many abusers are not violent in other relationships and can even be charming in social situations.

What can you do?

  • Listen to them. Believe them.
  • Assure them that it is not their fault.
  • Do not pass judgment on them or the person that hurt them.
  • Tell them about support services that are available.
  • Ask if they are safe right now.
  • If they are in immediate danger, call 911.

Have a question you'd like answered? Call us at 325.658.8631 or our 24-hour hotline at 800.749.8631.

 
 
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